Such is the outpouring of the hearts of widows who are sometimes more dominated in terms of feelings and often reminisce about their past.
From Umm Salamah Radhiyallahu 'anha , she said: I heard the Messenger of Allah sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam say:
There is no god but to God and we return to God and we return to him. Peace be upon him
There is not a servant (Muslim) who is afflicted with a calamity and he prays: 'Indeed we belong to Allah and to Him we will return. O Allah, reward me in this calamity of mine and replace it with something better than it.' Umm Salamah said: When Abu Salamah died, I prayed as the Messenger of Allah commanded me, then Allah gave me something better than him, namely the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam) . (Muttafaq 'Alaih)
Thus, at the end of the story Umm Salamah Radhiyallahu 'anha side by side with the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam. His heart is filled with faith and his soul is filled with patience. Patience brings love that makes it noble in the sight of Allah ' Azza wa Jalla.
The status of a widow did not make her decline in matters of faith and good deeds, in fact her condition which is the most beautiful destiny for her spurred her spirit to be optimistic and able to get through various storms by asking Jalla camp. The test of life has raised his level of piety to a high degree. Hasan Al-Bashri rahimahullah said: "Humans are the same in consequence, then when the trial comes down to see their differences" ( Shaidul Khathir , p. 216).
It's not appropriate to be pessimistic, and think about that when Allah ' Azza wa Jalla has the most beautiful destiny that is sometimes unexpected, such as the arrival of a righteous man who wants to marry him, or children who are capable of being as happy as we are in pen, do n't worry about a future that doesn't necessarily make us suffer. . As long as a Muslim woman is committed to being a pious woman, surely the sustenance of a righteous husband will also arrive, biidznillah . Improve yourself, life will surely be strewn with happiness in the hereafter.
There will be many rewards in patience. Don't worry about the devil's whispers that discourage you from being a patient woman. Marriage with many considerations is a wise decision. Even when he chooses himself, it doesn't matter, as long as he is in obedience to Allah ' Azza wa Jalla. And the key to a happier life is to be patient and have a good attitude towards Allah ' Azza wa Jalla . And when you get married, never compare your partner with your previous husband.
Patience will bring love to your partner, grow closeness and together create household happiness.
Umar bin Abdul Aziz said:
God had not bestowed a blessing on a servant, but he wrested them from him and replaced it with patience.
"Allah does not give pleasure to a servant of His with something pleasure, then he takes the favor from him, then the person is patient to accept it, then what Allah replaces is better than 1 ").
May the above description motivate widows and Muslim women to focus on pious deeds and not sink into the memories of the past, patiently accept the destiny of Allah ' Azza wa Jalla and deal well with their spouses and children.
May Allah give taufik
source from muslimah.or.id
